After you have discovered by working with your Paired Partner in the URU Schoolhouse and you have determined which you are, 
a winner
or 
a loser
or you are both winners
or both Losers
you are ready to move to the 

UNI Call Center
or put more Clearly
You and I Call Center
The losers in the URU Schoolhouse
The ones who have gotten the fewest votes in the Power BI form,  are actually the winners in the UNI Call Center:
We call them the 

"Doctors of Love-Healers"

The winners in the URU Schoolhouse that received the most votes on the form, are actually the losers in the UNI Call Center 

and they are referred to the 
"Lovers of Law-Cautioners"
or
If, we are still in the Ant Dance Story, under the subject of Government,
You can see that if the question was,
Who could or would or should be King, or Queen if they were ants, living for 5 days if male and 25 if female, You'ld still have less than forever because they'd be ants and now we come to humans who have eternity in their hearts.
Now, the paired Partners can have things in perspective, by switching sides. Now, after the Yes or No People Book has been filled out, you can see that pubic opinion in the Power BI, most people think or most people don't should not be the measure of What You Think.
In the UNI Call Center, a person can develop enough Critical Thinking skills to start learning Emotional Intelligence.
You do this by Identifying the emotions in the story of the Ant Dance.
After the King Ant dies and has a waltz.
It's time for a song.
It can be any song that comes to mind.
So, start singing. It revives the emotions and it guides you to an open mind.
And, it keeps you moving with the dance.
It goes:
two thumbs up for acceptance
both forefingers pointing up
snapping your fingers to make a sound
Teamwork with the thumb
leading with ring finger of commitment
and finishing on a good note.
chop on one hand with the right.
chop on the other hand with the left.
If the Paired Partners are still together 
after picking an avatar in the Museum
answering a question in the Schoolhouse
Switching sides in the Call Center 
and singing and dancing.
It's a possibility that after learning Emotional Intelligence in the UNI Call Center as Paired Partners,  might could want to contact the police and fire departments in your town to volunteer to talk to people who don't have a Paired Partner and who need 
to receive a "warm" call or have a wellness check in conjunction with the police or fire department.
It's up to you.
You and your Paired Partner can now move to the UME Association
after contributing your thought Contributions to the:
"How to Ride a Crazy Horse Book" 
This is a log that records the harmony 
made between the
Love healers and Law Cautioners
after the realization that:
Love can't operate without law
and 
Law is no good without Love.
Both are winners.
and both can be losers to if
we don't keep the beat.
The author of this Website Bally Lee Veldhuis
has had the experience of losing touch with friends, family because of the ongoing need to get something to eat, have rest, have work, have time to play or to accomplish getting clean.
Life is made to keep up with friends and family. So if the UME Call Center is doing its job, we can move to the next phase which is the UME Association, a more fluid and organized way to keep good contact with those we love.
Please email: Bally@you-and-I.org
To speak to Bally Lee Veldhuis you can call my land line phone provided by Optimum Business at the URU Schoolhouse Musuem and call center:
(475)-558 9555.